(for us,
Gentlemen)
As referenced
yesterday, I find interesting Adam’s response to God’s gift to him of
Eve.
“And Adam said, This
is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. She shall be called woman because
she was taken out of man” (Genesis 2:23).
Note the lack of
gratitude, and the focus not on God, but on himself. This occured before Adam sinned, of
course, and the point we made yesterday is that we may see in Adam’s neglect the
susceptibility to temptation that would later result in direct disobedience to
God’s command.
For husbands, our
original forefather’s experience presents a vital lesson regarding our attitude
toward both God and our wives.
“Whoso findeth a wife
findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favor of the Lord” (Proverbs
18:22).
“Husbands, love your
wives, and be not bitter against them” (Colossians 3:19).
If wives are gifts of God,
as Solomon declares, the natural response of husbands must involve an ongoing
attitude of gratitude. Unlike Adam,
the believing husband seeks to remember and give thanks for the qualities and
actions of his wife that bless him.
This counters any temptation to bitterness because gratitude and
resentment cannot co-exist in the human heart.
Cultivating and
maintaining thanksgiving for our wives greatly blesses both them and the God who
gave them to us. Our own hearts are
also greatly benefitted because “he that loveth his wife loveth himself”
(Ephesians 5:28). The believing
husband who bears such an attitude, as wrought by the indwelling Holy Spirit,
reveals the love of Christ in a sublime and sanctifying way (for his wife and
for himself). He also greatly
honors the Lord Jesus, that great Husband of the church who looks toward His
Father with much gratitude for the gift we are to Him…
“Behold I and
the children which God hath given Me.”
(Hebrews 2:13)
(Hebrews 2:13)
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